Do you consider yourself to be adventurous? Not me. I’ve never been very adventurous. Riding roller coasters, hopping on the back of a motorcycle, starting a conversation with a strangers -- no thank you.
But over time, I couldn’t just say no to every uncomfortable or scary situation. I came to the realization that in order to grow,
I was faced with leading 350+ people, meeting and learning about as many of them as I could, and being in a new community and without friends on the first day. As I faced this fear, which for any introvert is as scary as going 100 mph on the back of a motorcycle, I learned that I could do it. And it got easier with each interaction.
I began to feel braver while realizing that pushing my comfort zone would help me grow as a person and as a leader. I started doing other things that scared me. I started big! My friend, Lynnette, and I decided to do the FIRE WALK!
We attended a Tony Robbins seminar. The first day was very motivating, high energy, thought- provoking, and ended with the fire walking ceremony. I stared at 10-feet of red hot coals. How on earth was I going to do this? I needed to take one little step first, then another, and then another. It’s like a frog crossing a pond – it goes from one lily pad to the next. I was not going to be able to jump over the coals in a single jump!
Prior to walking across fire, I had joined a very extroverted group – Rotary, opened a restaurant, went zip-lining, started public speaking about my passions, and then eventually participated in a fire walk with 7,000 other people!
I learned that after conquering some fears, I felt like I could do anything! I'm getting more brave with every day!
What steps do you need to take to "walk across your fire?"